My next blog is slightly shorter.

Fear is something we all face everyday, but how we deal or cope with it can be completely different. Even the most out going people can be completely different with fear.

When you have had any kind of mental health condition then fear is very paramount and can actually get in the way of something that could be very good. But most of the time the fear of rejection is what we overthink and actually stops us from doing or even asking something that we really want to do or ask.

I’m a very outgoing person but when it comes to taking the reins in asking a guy out then I just crumble as the fear stops me from doing it, due to me always being rejected in the past that I automatically have that fear ingrained in me. Or if I do get the guts to do it, it comes across as just friendly. I get a instant rejection or the guy has his own fear of some kind, could even be the same fear despite all the signs saying otherwise. We shouldn’t let fear get in the way of life but unfortunately it does.

Imagine how good things could be if we eliminated the fear we all have engrained in us. People that should be dating would be, or you may go for a job you normally may not go for! Or try something new that you normally wouldn’t have.

I recently came across this quote and it is so true. “We all have our fears but we need to put them aside and take the bull by the horns as you never know where it may lead……. “